I Won't Be Abandoned: A Handbook for Healing ANXIOUS Attachment and Finding Inner Security.

A 14-Day Step-by-Step Handbook to Feel Safe, Loved, and Secure in Relationships

I didn’t write this from an expert pedestal.

I wrote it as someone who knows what it’s like to:

– Freeze when someone pulls away.

– Pretend everything’s fine while your chest is screaming.

– Stay in relationships that hurt — just to avoid being left.

– Quietly beg to be chosen, while acting like you don’t care too much.

For over 10 years, I lived in a cycle that felt impossible to escape:

Getting attached too fast.

Overthinking everything.

Obsessing over silence.

Becoming whoever they needed — so they wouldn’t leave.

At the time, I thought I was just “too sensitive.”

But the truth is: I had what psychologists call anxious attachment.

Does This Feel Familiar?

– One unread message ruins your day.

– You seem chill on the outside, but inside you’re spiraling.

– You question your worth the moment someone pulls away.

– You’re scared to ask “What are we?” — because the answer might break you.

– You want to feel chosen, held, loved — without having to constantly earn it.

– You keep giving more, even when nothing comes back.

👉 These aren’t personality flaws.

They’re signs of anxious attachment — a survival pattern your nervous system learned from unsafe love. You’re not broken. You’re wired for protection — and that wiring can be changed.

You deserve to feel safe in love, without shrinking to keep it.

This handbook is for you if…

✔ You're tired of chasing love, analyzing silence, and shrinking to be enough.

✔ You stay up replaying what you said — wondering if it was “too much.”

✔ You crave connection but fear it’ll disappear if you show too much need.

✔ You’ve stayed in cold, one-sided, or confusing relationships for fear of being alone.

✔ You want to feel calm, clear, and confident — not dependent or anxious.

What You’ll Learn (and Feel) Inside:

💔 Understand Anxious Attachment — and Gently Disarm It

• Spot the hidden patterns that keep you stuck

• Learn to self-soothe without needing constant reassurance

• Start responding, not reacting, in moments of fear or distance

🌪️ Break the Anxious–Avoidant Cycle

• Understand why it’s so magnetic — and so painful

• Shift the dynamic with clarity and boundaries

• Know when to stay, and when to choose yourself

⛑️ Rebuild from the Root

• Heal low self-worth without “fixing” yourself

• Stop people-pleasing from fear of abandonment

• Learn to love from wholeness, not fear

💪 Create Secure Love — From the Inside Out

• Develop real inner safety (so you don’t beg for scraps)

• Spot red flags vs. anxious distortions

• Attract emotionally available partners — and recognize them early

• Set boundaries with strength and softness

Bonus materials:

🧠 “6 subconscious mistakes” in choosing partners — and how to stop repeating them

🌀 4 mental traps that make you feel “less than” — and how to shift them

🚩 Red flag or your anxiety? Learn to tell the difference

🤝 Templates for anxious dynamics: avoidant, dismissive, anxious-anxious, secure

👉 Grab Your Copy Now

You don’t need to be less needy.

You just need to feel more safe.

Stop spiraling.

Reclaim your worth.

And finally feel love that doesn’t hurt.